#My guyfriend likes to prank me how to#

Life is not black and white and in this situation, I think you are both a little bit wrong.įor you - what is this business about 'I trust her but I don't trust them'. Besides, can you honestly say you could be happy if she continually hung out with this guy? When you know something isn't right, it's going to constantly bother you. I tried taking the route that you want to take, to let her have her space, and it just didn't work. I don't mean to be gloomy, just giving my honest opinion.Īnd I think the reason as to why she becomes so short when you bring it up, my ex did this, is because she knows what she's doing is wrong, but doesn't want to admit it or even focus on it. After my break up and after reading similar stories, those are the two catalysts that cause a girl to walk away. Then the fact that she feels like she's justified in her actions and disrespect for you is a problem as well. I don't know if she actually feels like you're being controlling or if she just says that to ease her guilt, or maybe it's done to ease her guilt on a subconscious level. At this point, I'm not sure what really does the damage or if it's a combination. She isn't that naive.Īs WindowTo said, you're pretty much damned if you do, damned if you don't.

Especially if your partner expresses a concern about it. If someone likes you and you're with someone else, you know at least in the back of your mind, that you spending time with them isn't right or respectful. And I don't believe they're truly innocent in their actions. My ex was older than me and still pulled the same stunt. I wouldn't even assign that ignorance, if you want to call it that, to younger partners.

#My guyfriend likes to prank me how to#

I feel I can trust her, but I'm not sure how to give her space w/o letting this dousche bag move in on my girl. with 3 dudes and 1 girl) And how should I go about not being so jealous?Īnd one more thing, since we've been fighting a bit, anytime I try to talk about anything like this, my gf just gets mad and she gets really short.which makes the whole thing worse. What I'm saying is, did she cross any boundaries by going over and staying the night with these guys? (they live in a school apt. But my real question is how to get past all this? I really do know that I have been jealous and it has started a few arguments, but I know I can get past that. Which I'm not too sure if I should be worried, because we live together. But she's been going over and staying the night with these guys for the past three nights to get her space. The thing is since we've been arguin alot over these guys she's been feeling smothered, and I understand that. (He even bought her an 150 dollar purse for her birthday.). She has these friends that she likes to party with, and one has a really big crush on her.

But I feel as if I realized this too late. It makes it seem as if I don't trust her, when in fact I do (I just don't trust all the d bags that I can tell just want to get in her pants). This isn't my normal attitude, and I can see how anybody wouldn't want to be questioned about that. I started asking her about almost everything they said, and I could tell she was getting annoyed. I am 21 and she is 19, and we have been happy except for here recently I have been getting really jealous when I see these guys that text her all the time. Ok, let me start off by tellling you that my girl and I have just been dating for little over a month, but we have been really close for about two years and have hooked up on and off.